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This excerpt from Maya's book, Mom and Me and Mom, along with one of her popular quotes, "when you learn better do better," resonated with me a few years back and inspired me to Iater write a letter of forgiveness to myself. I forgave myself for years of foolish and immature behavior that began in my teen years and continued until I grew tired of the foolishness and decided to try a different way of coping with life.

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I hear you. And we could all do with a little (or a lot) of self-forgiveness!

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May 23, 2023Liked by Phyllis Cole-Dai

I’d tell myself to “lighten” ☀️

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nice double entendre

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May 23, 2023Liked by Phyllis Cole-Dai

I see this on social media. And I have thought about this a lot.

I’d be afraid to say anything to me.

I’m the latest greatest version of me right now.

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Hooray!

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May 28, 2023Liked by Phyllis Cole-Dai

Ooh, what a prompt-- the past “me?” I’d tell myself to get more sleep, and not be so intense and savor more of every life stage.

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How's that going for ya?

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Jun 8, 2023Liked by Phyllis Cole-Dai

Well, since last winter I’ve been getting more sleep (going to bed early) . I am still working too hard at everything; but take time to savor nature and daily moments. The forget me nots in Door County last week were like a fairyland of magic. I stopped to savor that and the many lady slippers in bloom.

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You are a lover of life. Sometimes that leads us to work too hard!

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