The Daily Boost #477

What letter do you need to get from yourself?

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The inspiring Maya Angelou (born Marguerite Annie Johnson) wrote the letter below as part of What I Know Now: Letters to My Younger Self (2006). That anthology presents such retrospective letters by forty-one notable women.

If you were to write a letter to a past self, which time in your life would your words reach back to? What would you want to say?

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Dear Marguerite,

You’re itching to be on your own. You don’t want anybody telling you what time you have to be in at night or how to raise your baby. You’re going to leave your mother’s big comfortable house and she won’t stop you, because she knows you too well.

But listen to what she says:

When you walk out of my door, don’t let anybody raise you—you’ve been raised.

You know right from wrong.

In every relationship you make, you’ll have to show readiness to adjust and make adaptations.

Remember, you can always come home.

You will go home again when the world knocks you down—or when you fall down in full view of the world. But only for two or three weeks at a time. Your mother will pamper you and feed you your favorite meal of red beans and rice. You’ll make a practice of going home so she can liberate you again—one of the greatest gifts, along with nurturing your courage, that she will give you.

Be courageous, but not foolhardy.

Walk proud as you are,

Maya

(My thanks to Maya Angelou, via Mark Carrigan.)

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