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Nancy Shebeneck's avatar

I think I will “just sit” with this one for a bit❣️❣️

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

"Sitting with you"

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Michaele Rosen's avatar

So beautiful it drove me to tears 🙏

Definite save & share 👌🏻

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

Bless your tears

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Deedee Buettner's avatar

Oh my, made me smile and tear up at the same time. When you hear/read real truth it stops you in your tracks

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

That's what I call something "hitting your true spot"

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Myrtle Russell's avatar

Love this! ❤️

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Suzanne S. Austin-Hill's avatar

This is one bee-u-tee-ful poem! My visits to doctors will NEVER be the same! Grateful to the three of you.

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

Well, personally, I hope you have VERY FEW "visits to doctors."

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jennifer b's avatar

This poem could not speak more powerfully for the many of us given the chance to grow old. Thank you!

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

"Given the chance to grow old"—love that!

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Jan Slotten's avatar

Oh, how I love this, especially now being of the age when I am asked to draw a clock during my annual wellness visit. May we all find and hold onto the simple yet magnificent beauties of life!

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

Draw a face on those clocks! (Or something quirky!)

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Barbara.Rhudy's avatar

So grateful for this inspiring poem, Phyllis.

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

I, too, and "just sitting" with this one...(Thk you, too, Nancy S.)

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

You're very welcome, Barbara. "Just sitting" with you, too!

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Suzanne S. Austin-Hill's avatar

Part of the aging process is a calendar “full” of doctors’ visits.

#GrowingBolderIsn’t4Wusses

I’m blessed to have personable, caring, professional healthcare providers.

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

May you always have the care you need.

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Karen Hoffman's avatar

Stunning. I was with my husband when they asked the lame questions. Heck, I couldn't count backwards by 7s when I was young! This is the stuff of conversation with anyone and everyone who's been alive for a long while. I'd also like to hear the stories that they are able to remember.

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Ronnie Hess's avatar

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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Suzanne S. Austin-Hill's avatar

Thank you.

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Brigid Beckman's avatar

I've had three weeks in a row with multiple doctor's appointments with my mom, 83, and dad, 88. I just read this through tears-- grateful tears that I can love them in this small thing of taking them to appts. And tears recognizing the threshold we are coming to at some point soon. Such beauty. Thank you!

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

Oh, dear heart. Am right there doing that, with you—my own mother, crossing invisible thresholds that she's unaware of. There is beauty in presence. But the beauty is both struggle and letting the struggle be. Blessings on you and your parents.

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Brigid Beckman's avatar

"The beauty is both struggle and letting the struggle be..." Yes! And blessings on you and your mother. ❤️

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

Received with deep bows of gratitude.

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Gayla Dunn's avatar

I particularly like “Set down your hurry

Bring me a slice of calm

with some tea”

Sounds like the perfect preventative care plan. ❤️

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Marie Tesch's avatar

Bam. Ya got me.

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Phyllis Cole-Dai's avatar

I hope it was a gentle "bam." 🤪

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linda shulist's avatar

Beautiful! I worked caring for seniors for most of my working life and this certainly resonates with me. In the end, what's really important. So enjoyed this writing, bravo. xo

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