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Beautiful! I've always loved the word cowlick as a description of the swirls, some oddly placed, on my head. Thinking of it this way gives me an entirely different and very sweet feeling.

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I hear you! That's why the stylist's comment stuck with me. Bless your cowlicks!

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“...and I fill with ache for how sorely my mother

still carries my tumblings inside her.”

The definition of “mother” ❤️

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Surely the definition of mine! ❤️

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How I loved this! Made me laugh at myself for getting annoyed with my hair AND I found my hand on my heart when I got to the end. Thank you, dear Phyllis.

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Bless your wild hair! Thank YOU, Julie.

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What a different take on "cowlicks." This poem made me smile, andnd wonder what other assumptions stylists might make about our hair Thanks Phyllis.😄

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This stylist, whom I know only by walking into Great Clips, gave me a great gift.

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I needed a good example of an Ekphrastic poem. This fits the bill.

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Interesting, Bill. Can you say more? I typically think of an ekphrastic poem has having been written in response to a piece of art. Here, would the piece of art be the comment by the stylist that inspired the poem?

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You turn our view of the world upside down surprising all with a different take on life, A hairdressers a fortune teller and the origins of cowlicks. Such fun to read and ponder the down deep meaning of the ache of the poet. Thanks.

P.S. I have cowlicks all over my head, my childhood photos prove it. I still can't find ways to tame them.

They can be named curls too!

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Maybe the respect we show our cowlicks is the respect due the untamed parts of ourselves. 🤪

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Mm yes, hair stylist fortune tellers, love this notion. And live the word whorls.

Oh my heart, that last line Straight to the gut. Thank you Phyllis

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I was so grateful for that word "whorls"! And for me, the poem is made by the ending. I knew it when it "came through."

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Yes, yes!♡♡♡♡

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“So much depends on the first knittings of skin,” oh, yes. I related as a fellow cowlick-owner. And then the turn from self to other, the compassion; wow!

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Thank you, Jan. Bless your cowlicks!

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wonderful poem. I especially like the rhymes you may not have intended -- there is a lullaby quality to this.

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"lullaby quality"—I hadn't thought of that. And I like sprinkling rhymes, as well as finding them. (Sometimes I like them TOO much!)

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Beautiful poem. Very powerful and unexpected ending. Thanks for sharing.

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Thank you, Lisa, for reading and responding. The ending surprised me too!

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This is so beautiful and profound!

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Thank you, Paula. Inspiration is all around us (and ON us)!

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Loved this poem... masterful and evocative. Thank you

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I'm glad you enjoyed it, Cherise. Got cowlicks?

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Oh that was so beautiful! My child has wild cowlicks and I'm going to send this to him <3

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That makes me smile! 😊

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Hi, There was a photo that appeared atop of the poem:

“Bubble of a Womb,” created by nwinn (shared under Creative Commons license)

I thought the poem was about that photo. . . it seemed to me to be

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Ah, thanks for clarifying, Bill! No, I picked the photo to companion the poem for this post. But of course it would have happened the other way too! Maybe YOU could write a poem in response to the image?

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A Child’s Prayer

conceived devoid

of blueprint, full of intent

Dear Lord guide my feet

Bill A. Marable

1/15/23

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"Conceived devoid / of blueprint" — !!

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I love this, especially this line:

From the looks of things, you

must have been trouble, always rolling around,

Have you read this book?

Mom Genes: Inside the New Science of Our Ancient Maternal Instinct

Mom Genes: Inside the New Science of Our Ancient Maternal Instinct

by Abigail Tucker

I think you might love it.

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Thanks for the feedback and for the book suggestion, Catherine! I'll look it up . . .

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