Happy New Year!
Like so many holiday travelers (perhaps you?), our family had unexpected adventures, trying to visit my mother in North Carolina at Christmastime. Happily, we eventually made our way to her.
As you can imagine, I haven’t had much time to write since arriving. Yet I want to welcome you to 2023 with the gift of new material. So here’s a poem, sprung from a tender moment I shared with Mom, perched on the edge of her bed, the first day we were together again.
As we all begin afresh while continuing on, may we remember that poetry has the power to make us all “someones” to one another.
SOMEONES Phyllis Cole-Dai Upon reading John O’Donohue’s “Beannacht” with my 82-year-old mother I sit with her on the edge of her bed, one arm tight around her shoulders, as if I’m wire holding her together. I recite for her the Irish blessing a friend had sent her with a note: Ask your daughter to read you this poem when she comes to visit. My mother hadn’t remembered, but as in every other December, when I arrived she gave me a basket stacked with her holiday mail, wanting me to know everything about everyone she knows, even those she has forgotten. That’s when I find it. I read it aloud like a small loaf of bread, feeding its short lines to the eager mouth of her life. She keeps leaning in. She prefers poems with rhyme and meter. This blessing has neither, but she hears its poetry in the sounding of my voice. It means so much more when someone reads it, she says when I’m done, and at this late hour I’m glad to be her someone, as she is someone for me, knit together by words being spoken, broken open by words being heard.
The Gentle Nudge
Join other Rafters this week for . . .
Creatives’ Coffee (Zoom, Wednesday, 4:00-5:30PM Central, at this link)
Poetry Pick-Me-Up (Zoom, Thursday, 12:00-1:00PM Central), at this link)
Words, beauty, connection.
I sent Beannacht to my daughter-in-law last week on the 5th anniversary of her mother's death. It is a beautiful blessing. I always enjoy seeing the webs of connection, poetry often providing the warp and weft of a great tapestry.
So beautiful, Phyllis 🙏