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NOSTOS James Davis May We had not quite been arguing that night—but talking, discussing how I answer any mood of yours that falls below cheery contentment with a litany of solutions, as if trying to help you find the right word for a crossword puzzle. Sometimes the heart wants to be sad and say so and be heard, you said, or seemed to be saying, as we followed our dogs out the door into the yard, the carport light startling awake at our presence and then nodding off again. You’ll remember that it was late, our neighbors hours into sleep, so we spoke softly even as we began to really argue, this time about who locked the door on our way out. You’ll remember that we gave up our prosecutions when we realized one of us had to hold the brittle ladder while the other climbed to the window we thought might be unlocked. Part cat burglar, part narcissistic voyeur, I paused after unfolding myself into the room, observing what we were when we weren’t there. The television, mid-conversation, prattling on without us; my beer still cold, unmoved. You’ll remember how the tails behind you wagged, how happy we were to have back what we had. I remember I felt so heroic giving that to you by just opening the door, which I can tell you now, I’m certain I shut. (from Rattle #43, Spring 2014) [Curator's note: Wondering about the meaning of "Nostos"? It's a theme used in Ancient Greek literature, which includes an epic hero returning home after a difficult journey.]
(My thanks to James Davis May, via Rattle.)
The Gentle Nudge
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So good. So observant.
Such simple yet deep intimacy, and such a short but profound journey back to connection and gratitude. And a reminder to let the other be as they are.