Hear these words from the poet Mary Ruefle. Then, maybe, instead of keeping all those New Year’s resolutions, waste some time like our raccoon friend. (He’s another ordinary creative genius, just like you!)
John Ashbery, in an interview in the Poetry Miscellany, talks about wasting time: “I waste a lot of time. That’s part of the [creative process].... The problem is, you can’t really use this wasted time. You have to have it wasted. Poetry disequips you for the requirements of life. You can’t use your time.” In other words, wasted time cannot be filled, or changed into another habit; it is a necessary void of fomentation. And I am wasting your time, and I am aware that I am wasting it; how could it be otherwise? Many others have spoken about this. Tess Gallagher: “I sit in the motel room, a place of much passage and no record, and feel I have made an important assault on the Great Nothing.” Gertrude Stein: “It takes a lot of time to be a genius, you have to sit around so much doing nothing, really doing nothing.” Mary Oppen: “When Heidegger speaks of boredom he allies it very closely with that moment of awe in which one’s mind begins to reach beyond. And that is a poetic moment, a moment in which a poem might well have been written.” The only purpose of this lecture, this letter, my only intent, goal, object, desire, is to waste time. For there is so little time to waste during a life, what little there is being so precious, that we must waste it, in whatever way we come to waste it, with all our heart.
(My thanks to Mary Ruefle, via A Working Library.)
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Love this post. Truth. As a poet and writer, I waste SO much time looking out the window or at the sky or paying attention to whatever's in my field of vision or hearing or smelling. Yesterday, I worked on creating a vision board for 2023. One of the quotes I chose: "You don't have time to waste, life is fragile," which I read in an article about Myriam Nicodemus, a South Bend filmmaker and entrepreneur. She picked up the quote from her spouse who served in the military. I love paradox, and I like how today's Daily Boost post mashed up against the quote I chose yesterday, how both are true even though they seem to say the opposite thing.
I find my peace in stillness….whether it be sitting outside with my feral cat friends in the sunshine, listening to birdsong………Indoors crocheting stills my mind…..no to-do’s…just be’s 🧘